Today is Founders Day for my beloved Phi Mu fraternity. I pledged in the spring semester of my freshman year in college. How fortunate I am to have met so many exceptional women and with facebook, have renewed those connections. I could never have imagined how supportive these women would be so many years later, being there for my daughter, it is what sisterhood is all about.
This picture of me(pink) and my lil' sis Georgette is in my living room, taken at our big sister reveal in 1983.
I was thinking a lot about my wonderful experiences as a member last night and how the words of our creed are still as important and meaningful in my life today as they were when I first read them 30 years ago:
The Phi Mu Creed:
To lend to those less fortunate a helping hand.
To think of God as a protector and guide of us all.
To keep forever sacred the memory of those we have loved and lost.
To be to others what we would they would be to us.
To keep our lives gentle, merciful and just,
Thus being true to the womanhood of love.
To walk in the way of honor, guarding the purity of our thoughts and deeds.
Being steadfast in every duty small or large.
Believing that our given word is binding.
Striving to esteem the inner man above culture, wealth or pedigree.
Being honorable, courteous, tender,
Thus being true to the womanhood of honor.
To serve in the light of truth avoiding egotism, narrowness, and scorn.
To give freely of our sympathies.
To reverence God as our Maker, striving to serve Him in all things.
To minister to the needy and unfortunate.
To practice day by day love, honor, truth.
Thus keeping true to the meaning, spirit and reality of Phi Mu.
March 4, 1852, Forever ΦΜ